wayOUT
100% volunteer since 2016

Queer youth shouldn't have to leave home to find belonging.

Small LGBTQ+ youth organizations are doing the most with the least, in the places where it's hardest to grow up queer. We send them 100% of proceeds.

Smiling youth from OUTMemphis in glassesYouth from OUTMemphis with a blond quiff, chin in handSmiling youth from OUTMemphis with big curly hair
Youth from OUTMemphis, a wayOUT grantee
LA 2025 · $115,000+ for Sweet Evening Breeze, Louisville LA 2024 · $199,898 for Outright Vermont 100% to the youth organizations All volunteer since 2016

HERE. QUEER.

Step inside the Gayla.

Once a year, each city throws one big night. The whole room gives to one youth organization.

This is wayOUT in action

100% of proceeds from this room went to queer youth.

The wayOUT Way

We fund the small, local youth organizations with boots on the ground: the ones doing the most with the least, in the places bigger charities don't reach.

1

Identify

We look for local leaders and grassroots organizations already doing the work for LGBTQ+ youth, especially where support is hardest to find.

2

Listen

We ask what they need and what a real investment would let them do, and we take their lead.

3

Fund

We raise the money through our chapters, our partners and our big nights, and we send it to them.

4

Advise

When it’s useful, we share what we’ve learned and open our address book. They decide what to use.

5

Connect

We introduce them to each other and to bigger networks, so no one’s doing this alone.

How it works

A young person from OUTMemphis with long braids, laughing
Youth from OUTMemphis, a wayOUT grantee
Who it's for
An affirming space isn't always a building. Sometimes it's one adult who knows how to hold space.
Glenn Martin of Sweet Evening Breeze reacts as the 2025 Gayla total is announced
LA · 2025 · The moment the total went up
Who we fund · 2025 spotlight

Sweet Evening Breeze, Louisville, Kentucky

Glenn Martin, Executive Director, the moment the room found out what it had raised for his youth organization.

$115,000+
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LA GAYLA

Saturday, November 14, 2026 · Los Angeles

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The host on stage at an LA Gayla, mic in hand
LA Gayla · On stage
A drag performer works the tables at the 2024 LA Gayla
LA · 2024
Guests raise bid paddles during the 2025 live auction
LA · 2025 · The live auction
The 2025 Gayla check presentation for Sweet Evening Breeze
LA · 2025 · $115,000+ for Sweet Evening Breeze
The 2024 Gayla check presentation for Outright Vermont
LA · 2024 · $199,898 for Outright Vermont

Photos by Kit Karzen

The first ten years

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raised and granted to LGBTQ+ youth organizations, 2016 to 2025. Tap a year.

  • Los Angeles
  • Seattle
  • New York
  • Bay Area
  • Atlanta
  • National

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